I despise telling women my job

I don’t even have a “bad” job either. I’m a garbage man. More often than not when I reveal this, I just get ghosted. They probably think okay garbage man, uneducated, etc etc.

I have a bachelors degree in accounting and I was a bookkeeper for 10+ years before I switched to this

It’s a city job, I make 6 figures, have good vacation, good health insurance for life, a pension for life that allows me to retire when I’m around 50 years old. I’m literally set for life. But once some people hear garbage man they like don’t respect me or something.

Do I want to talk to somebody who won’t talk to me because of my job in the first place? Not at all, but it’s still fucking annoying. I’ve tried phrasing it different, like I work for the cities sanitation department. Still ghost