Update: AIO to my GF asking if I want to sleep with other women | Break up

OP from this morning. During the day we ended up talking and this is the result. I understand the way we talk is weird and that we’re both definitely ND on the spectrum. I used some of your comments/perspectives which she took very poorly and she ultimately broke up with me. Am I an idiot?.

I feel awful. I wasn’t very compassionate and let my ego blow up.