Am i overreacting? My husband is trying to rush me out of the hospital before i’ve been evaluated.

i have been sick for the last week and a half. my husband calls me “weak minded” every time i get sick because ill complain that i don’t feel good and say i need help and it upsets him that i cant just push through things “like he does”. (he doesn’t push through, he gets “the man flu” everytime, he just wants me to ignore my symptoms so i can still take complete care of our son). so this time i tried to keep it to myself and be strong, but i have a very sensitive body so it was very hard for me. i need lots of help and rest when i’m sick to make a good recovery and since i didn’t get that help this time i didn’t even start to get better. today when i woke up seriously sick yet again with no signs of getting better i decided i needed to go to an urgent care but i did not feel capable of driving myself so i asked my husband to take me since he would’ve been home all day anyway. he took me without saying anything and when they told me to go to the hospital for a chest x-ray he took me there too. it’s 30 minutes from home as there’s only one or two hospitals closer and one of them completely traumatized me last time i went there so i chose here because i know it’s good. before he took me i told him i could stay closer if he wanted though because he would probably have to go back to pick up our son from school and then come here again to pick me up. he said it was fine, waited outside for a while (wouldn’t come in with me for support), and went to go pick up our son. i told him to text me when he got our son and to go home and wait for me to tell him i was ready before he came back because i didn’t know how long it would be before i got a CT/cat scan or would even be discharged. the doctor thinks i have pneumonia and a possible blood clot in my lungs now which i never anticipated and is really scary. instead he came back WITH our son to wait in the parking lot without seeing if i had even had the scan yet and is getting crabby that i’m not ready to go home. he went to a family members house nearby where i suggested he naps in one of the rooms because he said he’s tired but he’s still being moody. am i overreacting or is he being an asshole?

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