AITAH for not paying for my daughter’s college because she lied about her major?
I (48M) have always promised my daughter (19F) that I’d pay for her college as long as she was serious and honest. We agreed I’d cover tuition for any major except “social media influencer-related nonsense” (her words, not mine) because I didn’t want to fund a dream built on TikTok.
She told me she was majoring in Communications, and I’ve been paying her tuition at an out-of-state school. I just found out she changed her major after her first semester to something called “Digital Content Creation” and didn’t tell me. She’s been making videos of herself doing makeup reviews, hauls, and “day in my life” vlogs.
When I confronted her, she said it’s her dream and I should support it. I told her I won’t pay for next semester unless she switches back or finds another way to pay.
She called me controlling and said I “lied” about supporting her dreams. Now my ex-wife is furious with me and thinks I’m crushing our daughter’s future over semantics.
AITAH?
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