AITAH for not letting my husband’s teenage daughter move in with us full time because I want peace in my own home

I’m 33, my husband is 40, and we’ve been married for three years. He has a daughter from a previous relationship who’s 15. She lives with her mom most of the time and comes to stay with us every other weekend and part of summer break. The thing is, our house is calm, I work from home, I keep a routine, I like quiet. His daughter is loud, messy, and constantly on her phone or FaceTiming friends at full volume. She never says hi to me when she comes in, barely looks up from her screen, and leaves dishes and clothes everywhere. I’ve tried to gently mention these things to my husband but he always brushes it off and says she’s just being a teenager. Recently her mom called and asked if she could move in with us full time. Apparently things have gotten tense over there and she thinks a change might help. My husband said we should absolutely say yes, that it would be good for her and that she needs stability, I said no. I told him I’m not willing to turn my life upside down for a teenager who barely speaks to me and treats our house like a hotel. I told him I need my home to feel peaceful and I don’t want to resent her or damage what little relationship we already have. He said I’m being cold and selfish, also he said if the roles were reversed he would take in my child no matter what. He said I knew he had a kid when we got married and that this is just part of the deal, I told him weekends are one thing, but full time is completely different, and that I’m allowed to have boundaries in my own home! Now we’re barely talking, his daughter hasn’t been over since. His ex is calling me heartless, even my sister said it sounded harsh.. but I feel like if I agree to this, I’ll be giving up any sense of comfort or control in my life and that I’ll end up angry and stuck

AITAH for not letting my husband’s daughter move in with us full time because I want peace in my own home