AITAH because I told my ex to take child support and leave me alone otherwise.

I was with my ex wife Linda for ten years.

I found out in January this year she was cheating on me.

I moved back to my parent’s house and initiated a divorce. She informed me in March that she was pregnant. I told her “hooray” and hung up.

That was our only contact on it. I have blocked her in every way and only communicate through my lawyer.

My family all want me to forgive her. Not to be with her, just to.forhive her so the kid can be art of their lives. I said their relationship with her had fuck all to do with me and that if they kept bringing her up I would leave.

They kept bringing her up so I moved to Oregon. My family and my ex all live in Raleigh.

The guy she was sleeping with is not interested in being a father so he bailed. There was a paternity test and yay me I’m the sperm donor.

After the kid was born I told my lawyer to get me the minimum child support and to cut my parental rights. My ex is upset about that. She managed to get in contact and went off on me. She thinks I’m the asshole for abandoning a kid who is innocent and deserves a father. I think I would not be a good person to have around that kid.

I told her to take the child support and fuck off.

AITAH?