AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend after she refused to go on a nice date I planned because it was on a Wednesday?

I 27M recently hit a small parlay win and decided to do something special for my girlfriend 25F

We have been together for almost a year and things have been good but she always says she wants me to plan more thoughtful dates

So I booked us a reservation at this really nice restaurant she always talks about

Hard to get into

Amazing chef

I spent $800 total on the reservation

Drinks included

It was for a Wednesday night because that was the only time I could get a table

I told her it would be a surprise and when I finally revealed the plan she looked disappointed

She said Wednesday was a bad day for her

She has work early the next morning and she would rather do something on a Friday or Saturday

She said she would rather do “a multi event thing” like dinner then a show or bar hopping

And asked if I could cancel and reschedule

I explained that this was a special reservation and the timing could not be moved

Also that I could not afford to do something like this without the parlay win

She said she appreciated the gesture but still would rather do something else on a weekend

No compromise

No let’s make it work

Just flat out no

That made me feel like nothing I did would ever be enough

Like it was more about the vibe than the effort

So I told her if this is how she reacts when I try to do something special then maybe we’re not right for each other

And I ended it

Now my friends are saying I overreacted and I’m lowkey thinking I might have

AITA for walking away over this?

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