AIO My girlfriend is breaking up with me if I choose to go do Fulbright for 9 months

My friends say this language is manipulative, toxic, abusive, and plain mean and she’s manipulating me into rejecting Fulbright (once in a lifetime opportunity) to move to london with her now instead of June 2026. I had 1 MA acceptance to UCL and 1 to Fulbright. Fulbright is free, UCL will run me another 40k+ in debt. I love her so much but I’m scared I have excused her language towards me for too long and if we weren’t lesbian and she was a man telling this to me as a girl they’d all say RUNNNN. But I love her so much 😭 I just don’t want to give up Fulbright (which she agreed to support but now I can’t keep her to something she promised a year ago when I applied). She also refuses to understand how prestigious and once in a lifetime a free MA degree and full living funds is.

But anyway AIO to her language here or is she genuinely just scared to lose me so she’s saying this stuff that she’ll prob apologize for really nicely later like she always does.

Also in reference to the emotionally unstable stuff. It’s not true — I just see a therapist for my anxiety and ADHD and take meds but she refuses to see a therapist or seek meds bc she thinks it is a sign of weakness.