AIO? Boyfriend won’t leave a bar, every single day.

Every single day, he refuses to leave this bar. Am I over reacting or is this wrong to do to do someone you e been with for so many years? He’s 34 and his job has kinda laid him off until they fix his truck. Yesterday he was off all day and promised he would meet me at 3:30 when I got off, he was wasted already and ended up blocking my phone number, yesterday. so today he promised he wasnt even going to go to the bar because he didn’t want to see his boss, well he now won’t leave and stopped answering so I drove by, then he said I was embarrassing him. But like, he said he was coming for literally hours.