After my dad died, we found the love letters
after my dad died, we found the love letters 23 Nov, 2025 a few days after dad died, we found the love letters, hidden away among his things. one of them said, i love dota and i love peaches, but i love you more. i will quit smoking and lose weight for you. the happiest days of my life are the ones that start with you across the breakfast table from me. my parents were not a love match. at 27 and 26, they were embarrassingly old by the standards of their small chinese port town. all four of my grandparents exerted enormous pressure to force them together. my father fulfilled the familial obligations heaped on his shoulders without complaint. he didn’t get along with my mother, or my younger brother, but this wasn’t too bad; he often worked away from us (for months and even years on…
